There are two types of people in this world; Actively active people: Are people who are always responsible for everything and actively create their own circumstances. Passive negative people: People who only blame, and always wait for the situation to happen to them.
What kind of person are you? We cannot choose the circumstances in which we were born, but we can choose the way we live. This life is positive or negative because you choose, a positive attitude not only helps you control your emotions, but also is the first step of success. That is why the Author mentioned this habit first.
Habit 2: Know the future direction
With my own practical experiences in this chapter, the author has shown clearly the methods for young people to clearly sketch the picture of the future. Fulfilling life goals not only makes young people learn how to plan their lives in detail, it also motivates us to live better every day.
Habit 3: Today is not for tomorrow
Laziness is the number one enemy to success, and procrastination is not a good habit. Do not let time pass before regretting it, life is short and youth is limited. Whatever you want to do, do it now because there are too many tomorrow. too much of your time.
Habit 4: Thinking wins
There is no win or lose in this life, everyone has equal opportunities. This thinking is based on everyone being equal. So focus on yourself, rather than losing to others, which only wastes your time.
Habit 5: Listening to understand and to be understood
If you want others to listen and understand you, the first thing you need to do is to understand others. It seems that this habit is very easy and anyone can do it, but it is really difficult to do. There are many people who just want to talk but do not want to listen, that is also the reason why they fail to communicate. So to maintain relationships you must learn to listen and understand.
Habit 6: Cooperative
"If you want to go fast, go alone, if you want to go far, go together." In this chapter, the author wants to remind readers that cooperative skills are essential in this life. Self-improvement is not only your own journey, it is also the people around you, you need to be able to listen and learn from others. And more importantly, you need to have a collaborative attitude in order to be effective.
Habit 7: Knowing to develop and practice skills
Hardening and developing your own skills is something that every young person needs to do, it has no age limit. Refusing to learn and find new values of yourself, you cannot grow up forever. If life is just days of surfing the web, watching movies that don't care about yourself, then you can just stand there and cannot improve yourself. So starting today take some time out of the day to learn the skills you need in your life.
7 bad habits often found in young people
Habit 1: Passive, have a negative attitude to life
Habit 2: Lazy thinking
Habit 3: Water jumps to the feet
Habit 4: Only think about winning or losing
Habit 5: Like to talk first, then listen to it later
Habit 6: Don't cooperate with people
Habit 7: Living off
Sometimes to get what we want, we have to do things we don't want. To be successful, you must be strict with yourself, and set your own goals for yourself. If you just passively wait for the opportunity to come, you will not be successful forever. If you have one of the above bad habits, then give up now to develop yourself. Before you want to win the world, the first thing you have to do is win yourself.
BEST INTERFERENCE OF THE BOOK
- If you keep on the mentality of I win - you lose, you will always have to stress the thought of life as a war in which we always have to compete with each other.
- Listening, caring helps you open up to both people around and to yourself.
- It is you who decide your future, not anyone else.
- Learn to laugh at the stupid things you do. Also, you have to forgive yourself when you are at fault.
- Even if you're working so hard to earn money for extra lessons, it's still worth doing.
EPILOGUE
7 successful habits of young people not only help young people recognize bad habits, thereby forming good habits into success. The book also teaches us how to balance our lives and deal with difficulties. It is worth reading and suitable for young people who are looking for an active life.
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